On Making Love: In terms of the sexual meeting, the extent of our sincerity and willingness to meet as naked souls means everything. The depth of our unfolding as humans within the realm of vulnerability depends on this willingness.
It is a willingness to meet in the mutual space of Heart, where the foundation is love and care. This is what determines our meeting to stay in Love – in respect for Truth – allowing the healing of our beings, rather than energetically turn itself towards the hunters eye aiming for a goal of climax.
In our need to achieve climax, our energy and bodies start moving according to wanting, rather than staying allowed to flow in pure Love , pure Life, as a willingness to go deeper, to burn our limitations and fears in the flame of deeper relaxation rather than contraction and needing to burst in search of pleasure.
It opens the moment for healing, for becoming and unbecoming by allowing a full dance of Life to roll in over the lovemaking bodies and uniting souls in a way that holds deeply and dearly the respect for our limitations, which are held in love and thereby invited to melt into our pure Being.
There is room for everything. In true lovemaking, we do not limit ourselves to a singular aspect of human feeling.. We invite the full passion of sexual feeling, but do so in a sense of holding steady-fast the responsibility, that this Life which is invited in, stays in the sharp eye of Love and care – of not turning destructive, hard or in any other sense invites anything but the playfulness of and in sensitivity.
We become Lovers when we agree to assume responsibility for inviting in Life more In doing so, we let our limitation drop by our blood, sweat and tears.
Engaging in sexual relations is a major responsibility. Our education awaits.
~Aisha Salem — with Nagendra Patel.